This is a long post about a lot of things that are usually on my mind.
I just did my move-in checklist thing and it reminded me of when my mom managed a low-income HUD subsidized apartment complex. She has this old lady who’d lived there since before she even worked there, she was probably going senile before she had a stroke and cashed in her chips. Anyway, before we set her up with the Meals for Seniors program she used to eat those Swanson TV dinners, and since she was old and couldn’t get around much I remember we went in to check on her, and she had a stack that had to have been three feet tall of the foil trays that the dinner used to come in. It was a good thing it was wintertime, otherwise there would’ve been monster insects. A few things happened with this lady:
She got roaches. Her unit was in the middle of a three-townhouse block, and the neighbors noticed a roach so they called right away. They’d apparently spread from this lady’s place and she hadn’t noticed them, being old and not moving around a lot and probably couldn’t see.
The woman was a hoarder; she kept ahold of everything. She subscribed to every tabloid magazine and never threw them away. I remember after she died we went into her unit and she had stacks and stacks of magazines, tv guide, people, enquierer, national geographic, all over the place. She wasn’t particularly dirty but she couldn’t really move around a lot to clean.
This whole apartment search thing brought up a lot of memories from that period in our family’s life. I can remember the horrible time when they were redoing the road in front of the complex and they broke a sewer line and it flooded a bunch of units. What made it so much worse was it was over Labor Day Weekend, so it was hot and all of the cleanup services were closed. Someone called the local TV station and I can remember her bitching out Brian Sterling on live TV. It was hillarious. She’d tried to do everything she could (people ended up getting free hotel rooms, of course) but she couldn’t find a company that was open or could send anyone to clean up these poor folks’ basements. TV showed up and they tried to paint her as some neglectful landlady, but she just ripped poor Brian a new one (he was an asshole to her anyway) and told him it wasn’t a TV matter and she was doing everything she could. We all gathered around for the 6 o’clock evening news, the 11 o’clock news, and again for the morning broadcast.
People who lived there knew she was a bitch. If you didn’t pay your rent on time, she’d take you to court before you could say eviction notice. She had to be that way, though, because people would just stay there for months and months trying to get away without paying rent if she didn’t. It was HUD subsidized, so a lot of these people were only having to pay $200 dollars a month for a three or four bedroom townhouse. They were all on SSI and food stamps and WIC. I got to see some of the poorest people every day and how they lived. A lot of them seemed to be in perpetual poverty, mostly because they didn’t have the skills to get a decent job, or the time to learn these skills. I learned how rough it was for a single mom with three kids to keep down a day job and go to school trying to better herself.
What really sucked was when the joke of Welfare-to-Work came about. I can remember babysitting during the summer for a few people who had to get jobs in order to keep their welfare; they both worked for the Kentucky Fried Chicken down the street because it was the only job they could get. I’m sorry, but you can’t learn any skills at KFC that will get you a better job. $10,000 was the poverty line for a family size of 2 and I think these women were probably pulling in about 5k from their jobs. Welfare added enough to pay for rent and WIC bought the food. I never say anything bad about people on WIC, because I know if they qualify for it they probably have it pretty bad and I saw how WIC helped kids not starve to death.
But really, the welfare state in this country is for shit. Furthermore, the employment situation isn’t much better. Michigan currently had the second highest rate of unemployment, and if you don’t have the skills to get a good paying job, you’re stuck working for KFC or Wal-Mart and if you’ve got kids at home you just don’t have the time or the money to go to school. After seeing the people who really tried to do better, who really bought into the “American Dream” do nothing but struggle I don’t buy into that ideal. Education is too expensive, and once you’ve gone and had a child or two you’re really screwed. I’ve had my own struggle with working and going to school and I can’t imagine how much harder it would be if I had a child to worry about providing for.
Do I know how to fix it? Not really. I’m not running for President so I don’t have any grand scheme like Johnson’s Great Society but I think our culture needs to change from the ground up. The message we still send is that hard work will still get you places but more often than not this isn’t the case. We only see the success stories—the Bill Clintons and Donald Trumps—and not nearly enough of the poor people. Or, for that matter, what will happen to the folks in Greenville when their refrigerator plant closes? There simply are no jobs being created in Michigan where someone who’s worked in a factory for 15-30 years can go out and do. Sure, they can all be given training for better jobs or jobs that pay the same, but our cash-strapped state isn’t going to be able to pay for it. Greenville offered Electrolux a sweet deal to stay in town but they still passed it up for higher profits in Mexico.
But really, is more corporate welfare really the answer? When it comes down to it, the plant in Greenville wasn’t losing money, it just wasn’t as profitable as Electrolux wanted it to be. We need less corporate greed and corporate welfare. We need more Fair Trade instead of free trade.
We also need to stop spending billions of dollars on making war when kids still go to school in trailers. What is the point of “defending a way of life” when that way of life is really a fairy tale for most people? I really think most people are more concerned with job security than they are with homeland security. Does it really pay to stop terrorists from crashing planes into buildings when state funding for public programs and schools (both primary and secondary education) is drying up? What’s the point of preserving our way of life in this country if there’s no way to make a living?
The first thing that needs to happen is for all of us to realize that we’re all in this together. When that happens I will fully believe in a national healthcare system; right now I don’t. Right now I’m quite content to see the dogs of capitalism control the healthcare system in this country because eventually the system will buckle. It’ll collapse under its own weight and then will be the time to rebuid and reform it into something better. Right now we’re trying to superimpose a socialist model on a capitalist system and it won’t work. We’re seeing that with social security drying up, we’re seeing that with pension funds running out of cash, we’re seeing that with the state college budgets being slashed. Our mixed economy doesn’t work and it needs to be one way or the other. Capitalism doesn’t allow for sharing, it only allows for a big take when there’s something to give. The only way we can all share is for all of us to work together and to realize that we’re in this together.
Wow that went a long way from talking about the apartment complex. Let me tie this together. If your neighbor is struggling working two jobs to make ends meet and feed her kids, chances are that kid won’t be getting a very good education, probably because his parents are poor and live in a poor neighborhood with poor schools.
Parents who are too busy to be actively involved with their kids have kids who underachieve. The best way to fix the bad schools is the fix the values these kids are raised on. A steady media diet doesn’t help. Just telling a kid to work hard won’t cut it, not when he or she doesn’t see anyone around them who works hard reaping any benefit. Poor kids are born poor and dissilusioned and they usually die that way.
You might be fine with your college education (probably because you’re white and grew up in a white suburb and went to a mostly white school) but your neighbor only got through high school and then she had to go to work. Her kids won’t learn the skills they need, and her kids might not even finish high school. But with just a little help from you and the rest of the neighborhood maybe those kids will have a chance. Why should you give some of your hard-earned money away? Maybe then your neighbor could pay for better day care for her kids, maybe then your neighbor could get some higher education classes and get a better job. Maybe then her kids will have it just a little bit better and they won’t make the same mistakes. Then your kids won’t have to give as much of their money away in the future; education would be cheaper for everyone, healthcare would be available, people would be better cared for and better educated and better informed to make the choices that help them have a better life. Crime would probably go down, and your neighborhood would be a better place to live. The whole country would be a better place to live, just because of your small sacrifice. Generations to come would benefit and then this country would actually be a land of opportunity.
And maybe, just maybe, if we could set up a decent publicly funded social saftey net, once your job is shipped overseas or outsourced and you find yourself selling your Mercedes to feed your Starbucks addiction you won’t have to worry about getting your kids a college education or the proper healthcare. We need to remember the “United” part of The United States of America.